FETISH II

Exhibitionism/Voyeurism/Hidden Cams:

A lot of guys admitted that they couldn't get off with their partner unless they were watching pornography or another couple in the act. Even if they witnessed two people having sex or caught some erotic movies on television accidentally (yeah, right) when not with their partner, they had to masturbate.

Only a minute amount of women admitted that they are voyeuristic to the point where they needed to see sex whilst engaging in it. Oddly enough, however, quite a few women like being watched . One woman from New Orleans wrote, "I make sure to open the blinds fully before I make love with my partner."

Contrary to popular belief about strippers and exotic dancers, exhibitionists are almost always male twenty-somethings who have an irresistible, compulsive need to expose their genitals in front of unsuspecting strangers and achieve a sense of exhilaration by seeing people react with amazement or shock. 

They feel no shame or remorse, are mostly incurable, and make up a significant proportion of all sex offenders the police pick up every year. A voyeur (French for watcher ), or "peeping Tom" has an irresistible, repetitive urge to spy on others through windows or doors, in public toilets, in parks, on beaches, and particularly enjoys watching others have sex.

Enthusiasts of hidden cameras simply use technology instead of personal presence, but not all users of hidden cams are voyeurs.  Both groups do not want to harm anyone, are driven by life stress, and will usually run once discovered. The sexual gratification is in doing something forbidden.  Occasionally, one hears of a voyeur who asks their victim to touch or masturbate him, and even more rarely, one who tries to force sexual intercourse on their victim.  

Fisting:

A form of anal sex based upon the enjoyment of feelings of pressure and fullness.  Rectal pressure is accomplished by inserting several fingers or the entire hand and forearm into the rectum and sometimes into the lower colon. Fisting is generally practiced with both parties in more of a variety of positions than possible with anal sex. It is sometimes practiced by lesbian couples. Occasionally, enjoyment is had by losing objects such as watches or rings while fisting.

WAM (Wet and Messy):

Wamming or gunging is the use of various lotion-like substances to have sex play with. Use of stickier substances (like honey, jam, or marshmallow fluff) is sometimes called food bondage.

Body painting, whipped cream licking, and food fighting are milder forms of wamming. The goal is usually to find common household items that are slippery, edible, and don't stain or sting the skin. Jello stains, for example, while pudding doesn't.  Margarine is better than butter, for example, because butter and milk products stink on the skin. Alcohol and sugar products should be kept away from the vaginal area.

Trash bags or dropcloths are usually placed on the floor, and shaved pubic hair is often a prerequisite. Wamming can be done with one sexual partner at a time or in orgy fashion, although most wammers prefer one partner at a time. The appeal is that it stimulates all five senses at the same time.

Water:

Many variants of water were popular with both men and women. Many women declared that they enjoyed sex best when they could hear or be in running water. Whether it be rain, the shower or even an opened faucet -- so long as they heard water of some sort.

Although it's not exactly water, many women (and some men) absolutely obsess over thunder and lightning. "The powerful sound and the sudden flashes of light give my body a feeling of empowerment. My husband and I make plans to meet whenever we know that a storm is in effect," said a couple from Colorado.

Golden showers:

Some guys love to watch a woman urinate on them as a method of foreplay . Other guys find it necessary to relieve themselves on women before they can actually get down to business.

Why? , you may ask yourself. Well, the reason for this also deals with submission. Being peed on is somewhat degrading and if you allow someone to do it to you, then you're submitting and if you do it to someone else, then they are succumbing to you.