Sadomasochism is to take someone on the edge, to show him the abyss, to induce him the most complete dizziness, but not let him fall.
Only the toughest females can execute this exercice of virtuosity!
It can also happen that the masochist doesn't declare himself as so, or even to deny.
The art of a Mistress consists in the fact that she never fails.
The access to the universe of the masochistic dream is possible only if you have invisible keys,
and the Mistress must be able to stop when she arrives at the extreme limit .....
This is sort of the dictionary definition, so in a sense it has to be true. Supposedly a leather fetishist is attracted to leather instead of people. But as far as I can tell, leather fetishists are attracted to attractive members of the opposite sex (unless ofcourse they are homosexual) wearing leather. And they are quite happy to perform normal sexual intercourse on someone dressed this way (or indeed on someone not dressed up).